In their book, Discerning God’s Will Together: A Spiritual Practice for the Church (Nashville: Upper Room Books, 1997), Danny Morris and Charles Olsen lay out ten movements in the discernment process. Their approach diverges from a strict use of parliamentary procedures and other models that function in the business world. “To discern” is to see or hear God’s will as it is revealed by the Holy Spirit. This means that group discernment is a spiritual exercise and Christian leaders need to use a process that honors this reality.
Morris and Olsen employ a few different visual images to illustrate their approach to the process. The visual image that we chose was that of a reflection pool with many different stepping-stones. Each stone represents a movement in the discernment process as we go from stone to stone across the pool. This is not a strictly linear process because one may skip stones or revisit stones. As a Session, trying to discern God’s dream for First Presbyterian Church, we spent time on each of these stones. I will briefly define the stepping-stones and then in the next blog start to share the result of the process.
Framing. The primary objective here is to state the subject for discernment. Because we were seeking guidance, the question is: “God, what are you guiding us to do?”
Grounding. We ask the question: “What is the guiding principle?” This helps us define the boundaries of what we will discuss and the aim of our effort. For us, the guiding principle was centered on the question: “What is God’s will for teaching and serving people in need?”
Shedding. This involves naming and setting aside our own egos, pre-judgments, assumptions and preferences. The “test for indifference” is critical. Each member of the group is asked to consider in their own hearts whether they are indifferent to anything but God’s will.
Rooting. Participants are asked to root their discernment in biblical images and church tradition. We were already working with the “dream” image because of Lucia’s question. This is an image well-represented in scripture, church and society.
Listening. We ask the question: “What voices do we need to hear?” We heard from the congregation, from the neighborhood association, from various non-profits in our community. We engaged in silent prayer to listen to what the Spirit of God was saying to us.
Exploring. We listed on a large sheet of paper the possible options suggested to us. We then reduced the list to a manageable number of options through a process of combination, elimination, and re-arrangement.
Improving. We sought to make each option the best that it could be.
Weighing. We began the process of moving toward a preference(s). The question was asked: “Upon which option does the Spirit rest?” The book suggests several different means for arriving at a preference. I originally suggested that we use the means of “biblically launched imagination,” but later discovered that this worked neither for me nor for others in the group. We ended up with a combination of two means: 1) the practice of allowing the Spirit to “lure” us to a particular path and 2) thinking about the likely fruits that would be produced.
Closing. The process begins to move toward a conclusion. We test for consensus. Some members of the group may have concerns or uneasiness, but the process can still move forward. Only if someone cannot support the consensus does it present a red flag and signal that more work needs to be done or the matter dropped altogether. We did move forward.
Resting. Here we ask the question: “How does it feel?” We rest the decision near our hearts and look for consolation or desolation. Do we have a sense of peace about the decision? Or, does it cause discomfort? A true discernment of God’s will draws the group closer to God and to each other. We should not feel distress or alienation.
The process outlined above is an ongoing one. We seek to know how God is at work in the world and how we can be a part of God’s work. The process of discernment needs to be re-visited again and again!